A Word for 2012

Everyone is talking. Talking about losing weight, getting in better shape, quitting this bad habit or that. I decided years ago that instead of making a New Year’s resolution I would pick a word and let it be my word for the year. Some of my favourites have been simplicity, peace, creativity, devotion, gratitude and laughter. This year I’m stuck.

We have started the year differently by house sitting at Raven Rock Farm and are in the preliminary stages of some exciting travel plans. Registration for the next course in my degree is in process and I am continuing to serve as President of Women in Focus for Western Canada, both of which challenge and satisfy me. From this Raven Rock perch, prospects for 2012 look promising.

But I digress.

As usual, I read several biographies last year and the most recent was written by a young Carmelite nun named St. Therese of Lisieux. One unusual thing about her is that she was only 15 when she entered monastic life. Therese made her request to the Pope himself. Anticipating her own death during her 24th year, she wrote her story at the request of the head nun and the account is childlike and poignant. She was small like me and like me, the words she found most helpful were the words of Jesus. “Whosoever is a little one, let him come to me.”

2012’s prospects are exciting, yet the prospect of growing closer to God and living in love and devotion to my Jesus, like my sister St. Therese is a holy journey initiated and empowered by the Spirit of God. It is one I feel compelled to travel.

 

There’s my word. Not very original but it works.

Journey.

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Lantern Festival

Bringing in the New Year in Pender Island Style. Happy New Year friends!

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Raven Rock Farm

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Coastal Paradise

I left the Okanagan in 1970 to move to “the Island”, tootled off to the US and Europe then settled here for good in 1979. As with most of us who experience a strong sense of place, something happened early on to endear this coastal paradise to me and that thing was sailing. Sailing introduced me to the ocean with all its wildness and fragrance, its moods and charm. My husband-to-be owned a sailboat when we met, sold it and we re-bought a 38’ C&C in 1993, which we owned for 11 years. Sad was the day when we parted with Acappella and set our sights on traveling distant shores. You can’t do everything, or at least we couldn’t so choices were made.

The wind was fierce today and reminiscent of those glorious 30 knot, wintry days sailing across the Strait of Georgia. We hiked the south-facing shores of Irene Bay on Pender, pitching sticks for Cruzer the dog feeling completely and wonderfully windblown. It was almost as good as sailing and just for a second, I imagined myself living on-island and reveling in all things rurally coastal.

Here we are on a budget vacation, followed insistently by one dog and two cats, 2 minutes away from family, caretaking a farm on the balmy Gulf Islands. An old friend said it best, “Next door to heaven!”

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Pender in Photos

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What a Day Brings Forth

Some days don’t go the way I anticipate. Worst case scenario is when tragedy strikes and I am sideswiped, or as my friend describes it, “feeling like a tidal wave has dumped me on a foreign beach”.

In case you’re tempted to click to a happier blog post at this point, I’m thankful to report no tragedies here today.

A few days before Christmas we began our housesitting gig on Pender Island. We arrived a couple of days before the owners left so as to acquaint ourselves with the pets, the property and the staff. For dinner George cooked up a gourmet vegetarian spaghetti sauce with mostly organic produce from the farm (and gluten free pasta) and Kelly invited her brother, whom we had met earlier that day.

When I was introduced to Bruce I thought for certain that I had met him before. Yes, his face had a familiarity but not the kind that pulled me into my neurological filing system for quick (and hopeful) identity but the kind that pulled in an emotional direction. There was this sense of concern for his well-being and I felt myself wanting to ask, “Is everything okay with you now?” It took me all afternoon to peg where those feelings were coming from.

Later, at dinner, I explained my process to Bruce he asked, “The Sweet Hereafter”?

“No, Star Trek”, I returned and we all laughed.

I felt quite relieved that he didn’t really live through terrorist alien torture and wondered at the ability of industry, specifically the film industry, to play with my emotions so profoundly. I am also surprised at myself for buying in so completely.

We said goodnight and Bruce kissed me on the cheek as if to say, thanks for caring.

Could I have foreseen the end of that day? Not in a million years.

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Gifts God Gave

The photos are the gifts we received today and in passing them along, they are yours too. Enjoy!

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Re-focus

It’s that time of year again! We have trekked west to the sea, the storms and hot tubbing on the beachside because it’s Gord’s birthday. It’s convenient he was born just before Christmas as it’s low season and there are deals to be had on the vacation side of things. I love going away at this time of year! We miss the crowds and regain a true Christmas perspective by pulling ourselves away from the “other” holiday rush and take time to re-focus and re-refresh. No cookie baking, no gift-wrapping, no shopping. Rather, we stoke the fire, BBQ crab on the deck, walk the beaches, read to one another, talk travel and slow down.

Evelynn Underhill writes this, “Human nature is like a stable inhabited by the ox of passion and the ass of prejudice; animals which take up a lot of room and which I suppose most of us are feeding on the quiet. And it is there between them, pushing them out, that Christ must be born and in their very manger he must be laid – and they will be the first to fall on their knees before him. Sometimes Christians seem far nearer to those animals than to Christ in his simple poverty, self-abandoned to God.”

It seems contrary that perspective can be regained in the indulgence of retreat, especially one as comfortable as this one. Yet, somehow Christ’s simple poverty gains clarity as we step away from the rush of North American Christmas culture. Infusing this experience of creation with the celebration of the coming of our Saviour subdues both animals Underhill speaks of and they regain their rightful place. The only appropriate response? Self-abandonment. The surging seas, and towering trees call me to it, as if the babe’s cry isn’t enough.

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Making Stuff

When we were kids, we often begged, “Mom, we just HAVE to make something!” and she knew we had to. I don’t remember our family being very crafty but I come from a collection of pretty talented artists. My little sister gets the most attention for her work (for good reason) and you can see it by clicking here http://www.bau-xi.com/dynamic/artist.asp?ArtistID=38. I am the lucky recipient of a 5 ft acrylic on panelboard painting of a place we frequently walked. I call it Lost Lake Arbutus and it warms my living room with its deep, woodsy hues.

Music played a huge role in my growing up; mostly rock and roll, blues, calypso and folk, which my dad banged out on his Gibson’s while he practiced for his frequent gigs at some club downtown. I grew up on She Loves You, yeah, yeah, yeah; Johnny B. Goode, Twist and Shout, and satirical renditions of Alouette to name a few. When I took up the same instrument as a young adult I knew the blues progressions like nobody’s business because that’s where I cut my musical teeth. We owned a good number and variety of instruments over the years and he played them all. My dad loved to play music and he was very good at it. Those were happy times.

My sister, Dee, is fastidious about whatever she does so what she does do, she does well. She has an especially keen eye for photography and fashion. Her daughter, Jamie is the same but often with purple hair and more energy.

Auntie Bev paints, spins, quilts, weaves and lives on Saltspring Island where she inspires others to create and is inspired in turn. Have you heard of the ArtStarts in Schools program http://artstarts.com/index.php?section=2&page_id=16 where professional artists visit a classroom to teach and promote the creative process? It’s a great way for kids to meet people who are living examples of creativity. She does that too.

As you step into my foyer you will notice a fine ink drawing of England’s Canterbury Cathedral’s nave. The work is exquisite in its detail and calls the observer to a closer examination. It came to me as a print by my grandfather’s hand. It is now encased in glass and a soft, scrolled pewter frame. I never really knew my grandfather but I understand he suffered unexplainable anguish over who knew what? His behaviour, apparently, made him scary and hard to get to know. He drank a lot, and I think of him when I hear James Taylor sing those famous lines, “it must have taken a whole lot of whiskey to live inside his skin.” I think it’s sad where a brilliant mind can take a person sometimes.

During my time overseas in Austria in the 1970’s, I sent a postcard to my grandma from the village where I spent most of the year. Since my arrival home was to be a surprise for my parents and sisters, I had Grandma see me part of the way home. It was then that she unveiled the large, framed oil-on-canvas that had occupied her evenings the past few months. She painted my Austrian village! I like to hang it in my living room throughout the winter months and let its rich memories keep me company. If I close my eyes, I can see her along the walkway in Stanley Park on an artist Sunday, brush in hand, head tilted, back arched, breath on canvas, brushing colour on scratchy white tautness; just for me.

 

In her early teens, my daughter wrote the beginning of a correspondence story back and forth with a close friend who lived nearby. Together they crafted a narrative of an imaginary friendship, in a previous era where old fashioned letter writing was the only means by which long distance friendships were cultivated and the details of life exchanged. She once told me that she writes 3 foolscap sheets of what she calls “morning pages” to start the day. Not long ago she went cyber and added ‘blogger’ http://www.asabee.ca/to her repertoire of experiences. Reading her blog is my favourite way to begin my day because her writing expresses the stuff of life in a voice that I have known and cherished for nearly 30 years. She speaks plainly and honestly and captivatingly.

These people enrich my life and I am grateful for them.

They inspire me to create as is true to who I am created to be. For me, it is part of the joy of the each season, and in particular this season.

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House Sitting

A couple of years ago we looked quite seriously at living
our lives from someone else’s house. There is a website for people who do that
and it’s called Housecarers.com. People arrange for house sitting gigs all over
the world and get to stay in some pretty fantastic places, some out-of-the-way
places and some real dives! The arrangement usually comes with pet care responsibilities
or heavy landscaping task lists or a very long time commitment or any other number
of potential inconveniences. After all our research a decision was made to buy
a place of our own and forget the whole idea. That is until this week.

It helps to know someone living in the area who knows the
vacating party and we do. Since Amanda and Marc live on rural Pender Island and
word got around that they were looking for accommodation, this house sitting
opportunity presented itself to them first and they, just settling in, passed
it on to us.

Long story short, we jumped at the chance to spend 3 ½ weeks
over Christmas and New Years near to them and, of course, our little Gabrielle.
Gord is working over Christmas this year so we will be back for 4 short days at
the height of the holidays but will spend the better part of the darkest days
of the year in the Gulf Islands on a farm caring for a small clutch of domestic
animals and cozying in for a sweet holiday.

We are keeping our home in case you were wondering. We need
something to come back to that puts us near Gord’s hobby, which conveniently
pays the bills and is a real source of fulfillment for him. In a sense, it is a
safe little adventure and will make Christmas extra special this year! Who
knows, maybe I will be inspired to write a novel that will one day become
famous. I could title it, “Little House on Pender” or something of the sort.

Are you doing anything out of the ordinary for Christmas
this year?

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